What Kind of Women Hire Male Escorts?

Sex is easily accessible for women, almost laughably so. So why would a woman hire a male escort?

My name is Sterling Cooper, an award-winning adult film star and former high-class male companion. Today, I'm here to share some stories from my experiences as a male escort, giving you an idea of the types of women who hire companions and their reasons behind it.

My first client was actually a former escort herself. In her 30s at the time, she hired me as a present from her husband. It was a live cuckolding session, with her husband watching from a corner of the casino hotel room in Western Australia. As it was my first client, I was a bit nervous and inexperienced. I remember her asking how long I had been in the business, and I had to lie and say about a year. I hadn't fully grasped the terminology and practices of the escorting world yet. It was fascinating to discover that this particular experience was a wedding anniversary present for them. In my experience, couples who engage in these sessions typically have the idea initiated by the man, seeking to see his partner involved with another man. This cuckold fantasy is more common than one might think, especially in Western Australia during the mining boom.

Another frequent client of mine was actually an escort herself. It amazed me that someone spending their days satisfying male clients would seek my services. For her, it was a way to have a night off, to experience being the one in control and receiving pleasure, rather than giving it. It was also challenging for her to find a man who would be comfortable with her line of work, which is where I came in. Being an escort as well, she knew there would be no judgment or awkwardness, making the experience positive and enjoyable for her.

One of my best clients was a wealthy woman from China, often referred to as a 'whale' in the escorting industry due to her wealth. She was trapped in a loveless marriage of convenience, living in Australia while her husband remained in China. Their marriage was solely based on reputation and social status, as it was expected of her to be married at her age. Her family members constantly sought financial gain from her, except for one niece who served as her companion. To escape the demands of her family, she would fly me to different locations, indulging in skiing trips and fine dining. She valued the companionship I provided, minus any expectations or ulterior motives.

These are just a few examples of the women who hire male companions. It's essential for a male escort to understand their clients and provide them with the experience they desire. If you're interested in learning more about my industry tips and techniques, I recommend checking out my ebook. Furthermore, if you'd like insights into female nature from my career as a male escort, I encourage you to watch this video.

We debate the question: What Kind of Women Hire Male Escorts?

Steel Man: "Women who hire male escorts often come from diverse backgrounds and motivations. Many are successful professionals seeking companionship without the strings of a traditional relationship. They value their independence and are willing to pay for a service that offers them control over their social interactions. For these women, hiring a male escort is a conscious choice to prioritize their needs and desires in a society that often expects them to prioritize others."

Counterpoint: "While it's true that many women who hire male escorts are looking for companionship, it's essential not to generalize or stereotype. Some might be seeking an experience they've never had before, while others might be trying to overcome past traumas or boost their self-esteem. It's also worth noting that the decision to hire an escort can be influenced by societal pressures that equate a woman's value with her relationship status."

Steel Man: "Another perspective to consider is that women who hire male escorts might be exploring their sexuality in a safe and controlled environment. They might be individuals who have been in long-term relationships and are now single, or they might be curious about certain experiences. Hiring a professional ensures discretion, professionalism, and boundaries, allowing these women to explore without judgment."

Counterpoint: "While exploration is a valid reason, it's also crucial to recognize the societal stigmas attached to women hiring escorts. These stigmas can lead to feelings of guilt or shame, even if the reasons for hiring are entirely personal and valid. Moreover, not all male escorts offer the same level of professionalism, which can lead to negative experiences for some women."